There are ways to achieve interaction without having to look online for chats or meetups with virtual strangers. From my personal experience and speaking with others here are some tips:
Meet in groups - try meetup.com: Follow your special interests like bicycling, concerts, art and put in your zip code on meetup.com. If you are on Facebook, your friends will appear in the groups if they are members. And all of this is free! (if you don't connect with a group, try another one)
Go to a place of worship: There are many non-denominational choices. Find a place where you are comfortable and enjoy the service. Join the group afterwards in the Social Hall. The bottom line is the spiritual message can always leave you fulfilled even if the interaction does not.
Practice casual conversation: Look for ways to talk with others. Consider your friendly neighbor, someone in a grocery line or at the bank. Just continue the rapport if they comment on the weather or the long line. All you need is a few moments of conversation.
Work activities: Participate in suggested company invites such as walking groups, bowling or softball. Also consider after-work gatherings arranged by co-workers including sporting events and movies. Again follow your interests.
Family and friends: If you need to have a meaningful connection, call a family member or friend. There are always there for you! If they do not answer their phone, dial another. And if still no pick-up, journal your thoughts - write them down so you may find expression and release.
I do want to point out it is okay being alone sometimes! In fact it is necessary to maintain balance in your life. Just keep track of the time on your island. Anything longer than 48 hours may require human interaction. Have fun getting off the island!
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